Archive for October, 2009

10 shillings

Tuesday, October 27th, 2009

Wilfreda’s weathered face reveals an old woman who has suffered hardship. To look at her arms, you can trace the bones within. Her clothes are tattered and threadbare.

Wilfreda lives in a small mud hut with a thatched roof. She and her aged husband have no means of making money. We visited Wilfreda at her home because she had been blessed with a male and a female goat through a project facilitated by Hungry for Life and our good friend Edgar.

We saw the goats first, as our visit was unannounced and Wilfreda was not home. As we talked to our guide Pastor Michael about the project, Wilfreda came running up the dirt path to greet us.

She happily shook our hands and told us through Pastor Michael’s translation what a joy it was to meet us and how excited she was about the upcoming birth of her goat. She talked of the blessing these goats will be when she can start to sell the offspring at the market to make a bit of money.

We had a little chat and headed on our way as we had much to see and a long ways to walk on this particular day. And I thought that was the end of my story about Wilfreda. But then we went to Pastor Michael’s church on Sunday.

The mud walled and tin roofed church was full of mostly widows and orphans. Some had probably not had anything to eat for breakfast; three meals a day is unheard of in Boro.

Pastor Michael’s flock is a very poor one. While they cannot bring much to offer, what they do bring is joy. Wilfreda and the others arrived at the church with huge smiles, dressed in their Sunday best.

They came to worship, and it was a sweet sound. Out of the congregation, one lone woman would begin to sing praise to God. The rest would repeat after her, moving and clapping their worship to Christ. As one song ended, another woman would begin a new song, and so it went for song after song.

It was beautiful. There was such a presence of God in this place, and the humble surroundings made it all the more evident that God seeks after our hearts alone. I watched as Wilfreda sang out to her Saviour, giving Him her praise. I am sure God smiled down on his followers in the Boro church that day.

The Hillside team’s pastor, Durwin, gave the message, and then it came time for the offering. A large basket was placed on a table at the front, and quickly after people began to drop in their offerings. As a team, we had decided to each give about 100 shillings each, a lot for these people but under $2 for us. I was standing right by the basket, and as I watched, Wilfreda and most of the others in the church came forward. They dropped in change – 5, 10, maybe 20 shillings at the most – releasing their grip and dropping their meagre offerings into the hand woven basket with a clink.

As I watched, I began to weep. I couldn’t help it.

We gave so little. These people gave a tenth of what we did, yet they gave so much more.What we gave was nothing in comparison to what they gave. How can I describe the sacrifice these people gave, their precious offering?

It was so real to me, after seeing Wilfreda in her home and witnessing the poverty she came from. To see her and others that come from similar living situations give their offerings to Christ was humbling. No sacrifice I have made for God’s glory comes close to the 10 shillings Wilfreda gave that day.

All is well

Wednesday, October 21st, 2009

Written on Tuesday:

It’s hard to believe how quickly the time is flying. A friend just emailed me the other day talking about what her kids want to dress up as for Halloween. It seems so far removed from where I am right now: sitting in a gazebo inside our hotel grounds, watching the birds flutter and chirp to each other in the tall green trees. Flowers blossom beside the rich red dirt road into the compound. It’s a beautiful morning in Siaya.

We’ve been in Kenya for a full week now. After leaving Noah’s Ark, we spent two nights and one fun-filled day with our friend Kimi who is living in Jinja, Uganda. We got a chance to get out and meet some of the kids she works with there. It was great to actually get out into a community and interact with the locals. Plus it was nice for me and Justin to not have the pressure of needing to make sure we ask the right questions, gather the right information and take the best photos. We were simply there to enjoy the day, and it was pleasant indeed. Kimi is an incredible servant of God, and to see what she is doing there because God called her just swelled my heart.

So, she drove us to the Kenyan border and we had no problems meeting up with our Kenyan project partner Edgar. That was a big praise item for me as I was worried we might be at the border all day trying to find each other. It was much less confusing there than I had anticipated!

It has been a full week with Edgar, traveling to Siaya, seeing some of the project sites, meeting with those impacted and getting a good sense of what is happening on the ground here. We also got to spend a couple nights at Edgar’s home in Kisumu, which was very enjoyable. We had a great time getting to know his family and even learning how to make a few authentic Kenyan dishes!

On Sunday, we picked up a team from Kisumu Airport. They come from Coquitlam’s Hillside Community Church, and we are with them until next Tuesday. Not only is it fun to meet a new team, they also brought some much-appreciated treats from home including cookies and instant Starbucks coffee which they graciously have shared with us!

This afternoon we get to spend time with the kids from the Siaya Children’s Home, playing soccer (the team) and doing some interviews (me and Justin). This morning some of the team went to see Obama’s grandmother’s home, which is just a little ways outside of Siaya.

We’ve been feeling healthy for the most part, getting rest and are feeling blessed by our time in Kenya. As our new friend Pastor Richard says, “All is well.” Indeed, all has been well here in Kenya. I hope to start sharing soon on the blog some of the stories we’ve been hearing and of course some of the visual imagery to show you just how beautiful this land and its people are.

110 and counting

Tuesday, October 20th, 2009

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Annabel

Saturday, October 17th, 2009

Out the 110 children at Noah’s Ark, there was one little girl that really captured our hearts. Her name was Annabel, and she had Justin and me wrapped around her little finger by the time we left. If she wanted me to get the moon for her, I probably would have tried jumping just to reach it.

Aside from general pictures of kids at Noah’s Ark, we had a few specific children we wanted captured as their stories really stood out to me. Annabel was one of those kids. So, like all the other children Justin had to track down and shoot, we asked an auntie which one was Annabel while playing in the yard. Once pointed out, Justin started following her as she played on the swings and in the grass.

There was just something about this sweet little child that grabbed at our hearts. For me, I think it was her initial story that got my attention. She was born in October, 2006. In July of 2008, she was found abandoned in a garbage container. This beautiful child had been thrown out with the trash. A woman found her and told police she would take care of the child. Just three months later, she too decided she didn’t want Annabel anymore and left her with the police.

It was hard to imagine this child would be abandoned by not one but two different families. Noah’s Ark staff knew it would take time for her to trust again given her obvious fear of abandonment.

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From nobody to somebody

Thursday, October 15th, 2009

We arrived in Uganda on Wednesday, Oct. 7. Our friend Kimi who lives in Jinja picked us up from the airport and drove us to Noah’s Ark Children’s Home in Mukono, just a couple hours from the airport. We got a chance to catch up with her as we watched the beautiful Ugandan landscape pass by. It looked just as Africa should look from all the images I’ve seen over the years. Mud huts, lush grasses, palm trees and lots of people walking, riding bikes, and piling into taxi vans.

We spent five days and four nights at Noah’s Ark. And while we didn’t have much luck interviewing the kids, we did get a good understanding of how the orphanage runs and how the children are raised within its walls. The kids play lots, eat well, go to school, get in trouble, get hugged and get dirty just like any other kids.

If you were to watch most of these children running and playing and laughing and crying, you might suspect they are just like any other kids. In some ways they are. But we got a chance to read through each of their profiles, each child’s story written up with pictures of the child over the years. The stories spoke of devastating pasts, including abandonment, loss of both parents, cruel treatment, physical and mental abuse and even rape.

To see children who have gone through such trauma and at a glance for them to seem just like any other child is a testament to the love given in Noah’s Ark. Their motto is ‘From Nobody to Somebody’ and fits well when you hear the stories.

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Where to begin?

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

Where to begin? It’s been too long since we’ve had internet to catch our readers up on everything! Our internet in Uganda did not work so well, though we had it for one evening at the start of our time and one evening while staying with a friend in Jinja. Other than that our bad luck with internet connections continued. Then last night we had an internet stick that was supposed to work. It took until this evening to figure out the chip was just in backwards! So, Praise the Lord, we now have internet.

You might be wondering where we are. Right now I am sitting in our hotel room in Siaya, Kenya! This is such a beautiful country and Justin and I are so excited to be here. We’re just in our hotel for an hour before heading out again so for now I’ll just say that Uganda was interesting and we are very happy to be in Kenya now. I will update again later when I have a little more time.

Too many orphans.

Sunday, October 11th, 2009

I know we said that we would post more stories from Ukraine but things have been so busy here in Uganda that we haven’t been able to dedicate the time needed to do them justice. Here are some photos from our time at an orphanage to close out our time in Ukraine.

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New sights, new smells

Thursday, October 8th, 2009

We arrived safely in Uganda yesterday.

Like every leg so far, it’s a unique experience. New sights and smells to explore at every turn. We were picked up from the airport by our friend Kimi and driven to Noah’s Ark. Yesterday was mostly just getting briefed on the orphanage and some of its 110 resident children.

Justin spent lots of time photographing the kids while I just felt overwhelmed at the scale of this place! We also caught up on some much needed sleep after two days of travel with limited sleep.

Today we began the process of interviewing and really getting into the stories here. Considering we’re here for such a short time we haven’t gotten as much done as we would like so far but we’re confident by the time we leave we will have stories of life change to share.

The heart of Ukraine

Monday, October 5th, 2009

We came to the Ukraine with little idea of what we would encounter. Of course, Hungry for Life staff prepared us as best they can for the practical details of Ukraine: where to get internet, what kind of adapters we would need, where we would stay, what to do with laundry, transportation and the like. And we had a briefing on the culture, the history and about John and Nadya, our project partners here.

But that was all we knew. The heart of this ministry in the Ukraine was completely unknown to us. So now I reflect upon the last two weeks (my, how the time does fly), and I sum up the Ukraine with one word: stories. Everywhere we look, every time we turn around, there was a story. Being a journalist I am already a firm believer that everyone has a story to tell. And obviously everywhere we have gone the object has been to find specific stories of spiritual and physical transformation of people and communities.

But it seems that here, the stories just pour out of every nook and cranny. And each story has had an impact on me. The people here suffer so much, and those that help sacrifice so much. If salvation was a matter of how much each person sacrificed, Heaven would be full of Ukrainians.

We’re still processing all that we’ve seen and heard, and we hope to share some more stories from the Ukraine with you shortly. In the meantime, we’ll be traveling again for the next few days. We take the night train to Kiev then two more flights to our next destination of Uganda. Please pray for safety as we travel, both by land and air. Pray that all our luggage makes it with us and that we have no problems with customs.

An emotional day

Sunday, October 4th, 2009

I wrote this blog post Thursday evening after a very long and difficult day. We left first thing in the morning Friday for an orphanage and were out of internet service for two days.

First of all, I have to say to all of you thank you SO MUCH for all the emails and comments. I honestly cannot tell you what the encouragement has done for my soul, especially on this night.
We have had probably the most emotional day I can think of having in a long time. Actually, it’s probably the most emotional day both Justin and I have ever had together given the sheer volume of tears cried and heart ached.

The saddest part of the day for me was finding out at the end of the day that a young girl in Haiti who we interviewed passed away. She was only 13 years old and was suffering from a very large cancer tumour on her face. When we interviewed her, there still seemed to be hope that she would get better. Then when we were working at Hungry for Life this summer I found out the doctors had stopped her treatments because they said there was no hope anymore. So I prayed for a miraculous healing. But God has decided to take her home instead. It is hard to believe she’s gone. I talked with her and hugged her and interviewed her dad only a few short months ago. This was very hard news for me to take.

The internet here is in the room Pastor John and Nadia are sleeping in, and Nadia came in the room just after Justin told me the news and I started to sob. She called Mary to translate and then Pastor John came in and prayed with us. They both praised God that Dachemie was in a better place now, and John shared with us an encouraging story about a woman here in the Ukraine. We will be meeting with her and I will write about her story soon after we interview her this Sunday. But he told me her story because her mother died and, because of that one death, four people have come to Christ. So you never know what will happen as a result of Dachemie’s death.

This morning we went to Shishkano, a tiny village in the middle of nowhere. All the places we have gone to so far have been poor. But Shishkano is the poorest of the poor. People live there who have no hope, no future, and no faith. It was sad to see. The village is crumbling and held together with a few mud and stick walls. We met an 87 year old woman who cares for her Down Syndrome daughter in her 40’s. They live in a pit of a house. Garbage was everywhere, flies covered the little food we could see, the smell of decay and urine and garbage filled the air. The inside was dark in light and in spirit. It seemed there was not much hope there at all.

Then we met with Pasha, a man anyone who has been involved with the Ukraine will know of. He is a paraplegic, and his two widowed and sick sisters care for him 24 hours a day. In the Ukraine there is no respite care, no nurses that come to visit, no programs to improve his mobility or stretch his muscles. He lays in bed every day of every month for the last three and a half years since his car accident left him immobile.

Tonight we hosted a banquet at a local restaurant for invalids living in Nikopol (the town we are staying in). There were 55 men, women and children who came to the dinner. Mary says some were war veterans, others had mental disabilities. I met a single mother with two kids. She brought her daughter Anya, a 16 year old girl with mental development problems. The child looked like she was 9 or 10 years old. The mother told me it is so hard to take care of her and her son, and she longs to live in a place like Canada where there is better care for families with disabled children.

At the banquet some of the team members shared their testimonies, a local pastor gave the salvation message and nine people became Christians. Then we handed out food and hygiene hampers. Many of those who came walked with crutches or canes and the 20 kg bags of food would be impossible for them to carry home. So with the team money they paid for taxis to take many of the guests home, and some were driven home in the vans we use to get around.

Justin helped one couple get into a taxi at the end of the banquet. The husband was paralyzed on the right side of his body. He had to swing his whole body to move his leg or his arm. The effort he needed to get down just a simple roadside curb was hard to watch, Justin shares. He got the injury from serving in the army, and he’s been that way for 15 years. His wife had a hard time helping him. Justin said it was hard to imagine how they cope.

It was hard to watch all of that. Sometimes I have very little patience for people who choose to do drugs or alcohol and then get trapped in it because I figure at one point in their lives they had a choice. For people who are born with legs that don’t work, with brains that are broken or other physical ailments, I find it much more of a challenge to handle emotionally because they did not have a choice. They were so helpless, these people. And there is basically no social system here in the Ukraine to help the disabled.

Even though this was a very challenging day, we saw God. We saw His hand on the lives of those we met. I wish I could say something more profound, but I feel drained and I need time to sort this all out in my head. Thank you so much for reading.